April 15, 2010

love before or after marriage

This topic had been presented by two of my friends in UiTM Kuantan and it was very interesting. I gave 9 stars out of 9 and a half for them. My class rep and my follower ; Ahmad Nabil Mokhtar and Ayraf.
I have no idea about the blur bluely dusbin

Love before marriage or after marriage, which one do u prefer? What are the advantages and disadvantages? It's all about love and it should be just the same. I'm not going to present write this article on behalf of single mingle triangle person OK! It's in general. Bdw, Nabil still single except with some scandals and Asyraf? he used to ♥ 'she'. Some of my friends asked me who is 'she'? Ahha.. "Cerah royak, senyap! senyap!"

Love before marriageis a fruit which is ripening. Therefore, there are chances for it to exposed to many dangerous but then they also would help it to become a better fruit. Deliciousta!

Features that make love before marriage is super duper unique.

E/though you're in a relationship it's a fact that you are still single. It's true that you have a partner to always comfort and be there for you but you still have to survive by your own. Having a mindset of a married person would not change the fact that you're single. He/she aren't totally belongs to you. Dating seriously doesn't mean each of you can interfere in each other's life. Especially in making a decision, you have to do it on your own. Yes, your partner can always advise you and be a supporter but in making a decision, from the simplest to the complex one you still have to do it by urself. Commitment! the degree of commitment of love before marriage is less than after marriage. Therefore ladies and gentlemen, if you cannot put put your commitment in a relationshio with your balak BF or awek gf stop dreaming of having a happy marriage.

Features that make love after marriage  is super duper unique.

more understanding about each other. You should be his/her mirror image. I can say that u represent ur partner.  you have to put fully commitment in your marriage. You have to know what you should do and what you want to always be together. understanding responsibilities as a husband and wife and also have the responsibilities as a parents! you will always put ur family first than anything else

This is not what were presentes by Nabil & Asyraf but this is what I cekau took from other w/side.

Nabil and Asyraf said that

love after marriage is more precious than before marriage. The reason is because, love before marriage will put you in a terrible situation. WHAT?? we can see from many couple nowadays, they act like they were married. The person we used to love before marriage is actually an actor. Can you believe this? It's up to you and depend you urself. They tend to be so perfect in front of their partner. They talked nicely and behave politely just to be 'a perfect person' then what happen after marriage? They'll become themselves and if the characters are totally different after marriage, what will happen to the partner and urself?  
OK! for me.... It's OK to have a relationship before marriage but still have to behave! Always remember ALLAH.

Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy.So the apples at the 
top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing.
They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave 
enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree. 

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1 comment :

asy.z said...

trima kasih for mentioning my name~~ hehehe

tp, knape gmbr aku n nabil ade dustbin?? T_T